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Things that go bump in the night
Published on June 10, 2005 By CariElf In Philosophy
There have been quite a few times when I have been talking with a group of people and somehow the conversation will turn towards "ghost stories." Every time, there was always someone who had an experience for which they could not find a mundane explanation. I myself have had a few unusual experiences. Inevitably, there are skeptics in the group who, even given the absence of any other reasonable causes, will claim that the person telling the story must have been mistaken. However, the skeptics were not there, and they themselves have never experienced something similar, or they would know that it happened. It's a matter of faith, when your brain is desperately trying to find a logical explanation for something that cannot be rationally explained. Perception can be distorted, but the few times an unusual experience has happened to me, there was no room for doubt in my mind while it was happening. The first two happened when I was in college, and the third happened today.

The first time, I was in my bedroom. It was late at night, my lights were on, and I was reading in bed. I started to feel a prickling sensation over my face, like when you get near something with a lot of static electricity, but it felt more like a touch. And then, I saw the foot of my bed go down, like someone had just sat there.

The second time, I was in my car. It was morning, and I was driving to my morning class, so it would have been around 8-9 in the morning. I was stopped at a red light waiting to turn left when I felt as if someone was caressing my neck. i was so surprised that I jammed on my brakes, so it was a good thing that I was already stopped.

Usually when stories like the above happen, someone has just died in the person's family, but no one was ill or died around either of those times. However, I have always believed in guardian angels, so perhaps I can attribute these stories to them.

As for this third time, it has been almost a week since my grandfather died. I've been spending a lot of time over at my grandma's house since it happened. When I arrived tonight, at about 6:30 pm, I opened the front door. There was no one in the living room, but the rocking chair was rocking like someone had just jumped up from it. So I called out, but the house was quiet as if no one was there. So I walked through the house and out the back door, and my grandmother and my great aunt (who has been staying with my grandmother this week) were sitting out in the backyard with my parents. So I asked them if they had just come outside, but they had been there for half an hour. There had been no one in the house for half an hour, and the chair was rocking as I opened the door, so I couldn't have knocked it with anything. We tried to make it happen again just by opening the door, but there was no real physical way that just opening the door could have caused it. So we think that my grandfather was paying a visit. I hope that he pays my cousin John a visit, because John does not believe in souls or in the afterlife, and I'm sure that it would be comforting to know that Grandpa wasn't just gone.

Life is a lot more interesting when you believe that there is more than you can rationally explain.




Comments
on Jun 10, 2005
Which is the more rational explaination: that there are things that are currently beyond human understanding, or denying what your senses are telling you? Is just good your visitors didn't have hostile intents (or if they did those intents weren't matched with actions).
on Jun 11, 2005
There are no rational explanations. Try para normal explanations
on Jun 11, 2005
'Which is the more rational explaination: that there are things that are currently beyond human understanding, or denying what your senses are telling you?'
But these are not mutually exclusive, Danny. And there are many more everyday examples of our senses getting it 'wrong' than you could poke a stick at; eg. optical / kinetic illusions, individual expectations, the effects of certain narcotics / illnesses. Actually, what amazes me is not that our senses sometimes fool us, but that they do this so seldom.

Skeptics do not, as is commonly suggested, DENY that there are things we don't understand. But neither do they extrapolate from a sensory experience for which they have no immediate explanation to the conclusion that this is therefore proof of the existence of ghosts, leylines, past lives, alien abduction, reincarnation, the healing power of crystals etc. Skeptics merely demand the same degree of proof that is required under any other circumstance; that of rigorous scientific method.

My sympathies on your loss, CariElf, and I mean no disrespect. However, isn't it possible that your opening the door caused a draft which set the chair rocking?

'Life is a lot more interesting when you believe that there is more than you can rationally explain.'
If you find it so, then good for you. However, 'faith' or 'belief' on its own is something that can have no justification one way or the other to anybody else. Me, I find the world as we understand it (through science, the arts, culture etc.) to be quite fascinating enough without feeling the need to believe in anything 'unexplained' that lies behind, beneath or beyond it.
on Jun 11, 2005
Furry Canary,

We tried to reproduce the effect of making the chair rock by opening the door, but it didn't happen again. The chair is not directly in line of the door, and it wasn't particularly windy. I could probably set up a physics equation to determine the force required to make the chair rock from that direction, but I would need a way to determine the mass of the rocking chair. However, I think that it is unlikely that it was caused by a draft. It was not just rocking gently, and it's an uphostered rocking chair, so it's heavier than the traditional kind. It was rocking like someone had just been sitting in it, rocking fast, then jumped out. My grandmother has no pets, and everyone had been outside for half an hour.

I am not asking you to believe that something paranormal ocurred at my grandmother's house. Most people, as you say, require some kind of proof, and proof is not easy to come by. I have jost provided my experiences as an opening to discussion.
on Jun 11, 2005
While I not believe anything exists that isn't governed by natural laws, I also do not believe that science understands or is even aware of all natural laws of the universe.

I am certain there are likely to be a great many things that are beyond our current level of knowledge, understanding, and perception that science knows nothing about at all.

At one time it was a scientific "fact" that heavier than air flight was impossible. At one time, it was a scientific "fact" that faster than sound flight was impossible.

Our knowledge of the universe, and it laws, changes as we make new discoveries. Perhaps there are indeed unseen things, maybe even spirits, that we can't perceive right now. If you told someone 200 years ago that it was possible to sit in a chair and converse with someone on the other side of the planet instantly, and even to share images with them, they would have locked you up or mocked you as a fool.

Electromagnetic signals are invisible and at that time scientifically nothing more than a novelty. The science of 200 years ago would have stated as "fact" that the type of communication described is impossible. Of course today it's an every day part of life.

One important rule of science is to never assume anything is impossible. The minute you do, someone is going to prove you wrong.
on Jun 11, 2005
'I am not asking you to believe that something paranormal ocurred at my grandmother's house. Most people, as you say, require some kind of proof, and proof is not easy to come by. I have jost provided my experiences as an opening to discussion.'
Touché. I can’t argue with that!